Dream big, start small
14 July 2025 ·
✔️ Medically Reviewed: 09 July 2025 by Dr Emma Southworth

Mindset, motivation & habits: Dream big, start small
Have you ever set yourself a huge goal then felt overwhelmed and given up days later?
We’ve all done it.
The secret isn’t to aim lower,it's breaking your big dreams into small manageable bits.
Here's how to set goals that work without wearing you out.
What's your big goal?
What do you really want? Lose weight, run a marathon, get fitter, feel healthier. Be clear about what actually matters to you.
Now scale it right back. Breaking your goal down reduces anxiety and makes starting easier. Small manageable steps build confidence and motivation as you see progress quickly.
Sounds weird, but trust us, big goals can feel impossible. So make it something easy you can actually do daily or weekly. Want to run a marathon? Start by walking or jogging around your block a few times each week. Want to eat better? Just add some veggies to your meals.
Make your goals clear and doable.
"Be healthier" sounds good but what exactly does that mean? Maybe it's drinking one extra glass of water every day or swapping your usual snack for some fruit a couple of times a week. Clear steps are much easier to stick to.
Notice the small wins.
Don’t wait to reach your big goal to feel good. Every small step counts. Even something as simple as drinking an extra glass of water each day or taking the stairs instead of the lift can make a big difference. Managed to go for regular walks this week? Great job. Added veggies three days running? Nice work. Noticing these little successes helps keep you going.
Be ready for things to go wrong.
Life is messy. Maybe you planned to exercise every day but then work got hectic or you felt under the weather. Plans won’t always work out perfectly. Missed a day or two? No worries. It doesn’t mean you’ve messed up,it's just life being life. Try again tomorrow, no guilt needed.